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Cheshvan: Connecting to
the Infinite

For more about Cheshvan, see Holding on to the Inspiration.  

Cheshvan is unique because it is the only month in the Jewish calendar that does not have a holiday or special mitzvah associated with it. Yet its apparent emptiness is deceiving.

The Power of Eight

Cheshvan is the eighth month of the year, and in the Jewish tradition "8" symbolizes the power of the soul to transcend physical reality and become linked to the Infinite One. This aspect of "8" is reflected in the ritual of circumcision and the holiday of Chanukah.

Circumcision takes place on the eighth day from birth because circumcision marks the newborn's entry into the eternal Covenant made between God and the Jewish people. Circumcision is a reminder that even though we live in a material world with many attractions and distractions, our true goal in life is to channel our powers and passions for the good so that we can become closer to God.

The eight-day holiday of Chanukah represents the triumph of Jewish belief over Hellenism - a system of thought which still influences the world. The Greeks believed that once God set up the universe, so to speak, He left it to run according to mechanical, natural laws. The Jews, on the other hand, know that God is not only the Creator of the universe, but He is also actively involved in every aspect of His Creation. Even though the world appears to run by itself like clockwork, it couldn't last for a minute without Divine Providence.

During the time of Mashiach, when God's guiding presence will be revealed to all, Cheshvan - the eighth month - will finally receive its holiday, for the Third Temple (may it be rebuilt speedily and within our days) will be inaugurated during this month.

Rain is a Blessing

Cheshvan is often referred to as Mar-cheshvan. The Hebrew word "mar" has two meanings: bitter and a drop of water. Cheshvan is "bitter" because there are no holidays to "sweeten" it. It is the month associated with water because this is the month when the rains of the Flood began to fall (on the 17th of the month) and even today it marks the beginning of the rainy season in the Land of Israel.

In Israel, we begin to pray for rain on the 7th of Cheshvan. In the Diaspora, Jews begin to say veten tal umatar l'vracha ("and give dew and rain for a blessing") on either the 4th or 5th of December. We continue to pray for rain during the Shemoneh Esrei prayer until Erev Pesach.

The Sages chose the 7th of Cheshvan to begin the prayer for rain because by this date the last of the pilgrims who had come to the Temple in Jerusalem for the holiday of Sukkot had already returned home and would not be inconvenienced by the muddy roads.

The 7th of Cheshvan, therefore, can be seen as a time of spiritual "descent." We are no longer intensely involved with the many mitzvot associated with Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur and Sukkot - mitzvot that bring us closer to God - and are instead concerned with the more mundane worries of making a living.

However, Chassidut sees in this date a potential for a very great "ascent." God wishes to have a "dwelling place" in this physical world and so when we imbue all of our activities with holiness we create this dwelling place all year round.

Rain is one such "mundane activity" that can be imbued with this holiness. Plentiful annual rainfalls are crucial for the Land of Israel since the country lacks the deep lakes that can store up rain water for use during dry years. But despite the obvious need for rain, even in Israel a person's attitude to it can either be a "descent" or an "ascent."

Adherents of the Hellenistic/mechanistic way of thought would say that Israel's rainfall is a result of natural forces. When the weather patterns are right, it rains; when they aren't, it doesn't. The Torah, however, says otherwise:

For the land that you go in to possess is not like the land of Egypt, from where you came out, where you did sow your seed and water it with your foot like a garden of herbs. But the land that you go in to possess is a land of hills and valleys, which drink water as the rains of heaven come down. It is a land that the Lord your God cares for; the eyes of the Lord your God are always upon it, from the beginning of the year even until the end of the year (Deuteronomy, 11:10-12).

Accordingly, the Sages of the Talmud say that rain is an act of chessed (kindness) on God's part. When the rains come at the proper time everything is blessed, and the Talmud alerts us to be aware of the magnitude of this blessing (Ta'anit 7,8):

  1. A day when rain falls is as great as the day when the Torah was given.
  2. A day when rain falls is as great as the day when heaven and earth were created.
  1. Great is the day of rain for even a small coin in one's pocket is blessed by it…
  2. Although rain is given as an act of chessed and not because of human merit, when people do not deal honestly with one another the rains cease, as the Sages say:

  3. The rains are withheld only because of the sin of theft…
  4. The rains are withheld only because of those who bear slander…
  5. The rains are withheld only because of the arrogant…

Drought is an all too real phenomena in Israel, but in Cheshvan we are reminded that there was once a very different punishment involving rain when people acted unjustly towards one another. We always read the Torah portion of Noah during this month, which tells us that God decided to destroy the world with a great Flood because the world was filled with violence.

The Messenger is the Message

Only Noah was righteous in his generation, yet despite his righteousness the Talmud holds Noah at least partially responsible for the destruction. Noah spent 120 years building the ark and repeatedly warned his neighbors that they would be punished for their transgressions - yet no one paid any attention to him.

The reason he was ignored, says the Midrash, is because Noah, himself, did not fully believe in the truth of his message. Noah was enough of a tzaddik (righteous person) to follow God's command and build the ark exactly according to God's specifications, but in his heart he did not believe that God would fulfill His word and destroy the world. Therefore, Noah only entered the ark "because of the waters of the Flood" (Genesis 7:7) - i.e. he fled to the ark only when the rising waters forced him to do so.

Rebbe Nachman of Breslov points out the Hebrew word for the Flood - mabul - is very similar to the word for confusion - bilbul. Because Noah lacked complete faith in Divine Providence, he was sending a mixed message - and he was ineffective in transmitting the warning he had received from God to others. The result was that he witnessed the destruction of his world. The rains of blessing had turned into a curse.

Yet there was one place that was not affected by the waters of the Flood, and this place is mentioned for the first time in the Torah portion of Lech Lecha, which we also read during the month of Cheshvan.

The Land of Israel

According to the Talmud, "The Holy Land was not touched by the Flood," (Zevachim, 113a).

Rebbe Nachman says that one reason the waters of the Flood did not touch the Holy Land is because the Land of Israel is associated with faith, as it says in Psalms 37:3: "Dwell in the Land and cultivate faith."

Faith is the opposite of confusion. We don't have faith because we read about the concept in some book or some Hebrew School teacher told us to have faith years ago. We have faith because we have seen in our own lives how God is guiding us every step of the way. If we don't have this clarity of vision yet, we are expected to work on developing it. Although a person who works on cultivating faith will learn to see Divine Providence in every place and every situation, nowhere is Divine Providence more apparent than in the Land of Israel.

The first time the Land of Israel is mentioned in the Torah is in connection with Abraham, the first Jew, when he is commanded by God to leave his homeland behind and, "Go to the Land I will show you" (Genesis 12:1).

(N.B. This Torah portion is always read during the week when the 7th of Cheshvan falls. We are therefore reminded to have faith that every time of "descent" - every seeming going down from holiness - is actually a time when we are sowing the seeds for a new and even higher "ascent.")

Once he is the Holy Land, Abraham receives his first commandment from God - the mitzvah of circumcision. With the performance of this mitzvah, Abraham enters into a Covenant with God that binds him - and all his descendants - not only to God, but also to the Land of Israel:

And I will establish My Covenant between Me and you and your seed after you throughout the generations to be an everlasting Covenant, to be a God to you and to your seed after you. And I will give to you, and to your seed after you, the land of your sojournings, all the land of Canaan, for an everlasting possession…This is My Covenant which you shall keep, between Me and you and your seed after you: every male among you shall be circumcised...And he that is eight days old shall be circumcised… (Genesis 17: 7-12).

What was so special about Abraham that he deserved to enter into this amazing Covenant with God?

According to Rabbi Ezriel Tauber, a modern lecturer and author, Abraham's unique contribution to the world was not monotheism, as is commonly thought. In Biblical times, everyone knew there was a God, a Creator of the universe. Most people, however, didn't believe that God was still actively involved with running His world and so violence and immorality was rampant.

Abraham was the first person who not only recognized his Creator, but also realized that he had a personal relationship with his Creator. Abraham understood that God has a plan for the world - and if God has placed him in the world then his every action must be important to God.

Once Abraham realized that he had this relationship with his Creator, he dedicated his life to performing God's Will. The Hebrew word for "will" - ratzon - shares the same root as the word for "land" - eretz. The Land of Israel (Eretz Yisroel) is the land where God's Will is revealed, and so it is no surprise that God promised this land to Abraham. But why was God so sure that Abraham's legacy would be transmitted to his descendants?

Before God enters into this Covenant with Abraham, He says to him: "Walk before Me and be whole-hearted (Genesis 17:1). The 17th century commentary Tz'enah Ur'enah comments that this verse means "Don't let your body be divided - let what your mouth says reflect what your heart feels."

God knew that Abraham's belief in Him was not just "lip-service" - that his words and deeds were a true reflection of what he believed in his heart - and that therefore Abraham's message would continue to be heard by his children for all time.

For many of us, however, Abraham's message is getting lost amidst the flood of other messages we receive every day from our computers, TVs and radios - and the result is that we are in a closer relationship with our Palm Pilots than with God. Because we no longer fully see and believe that Divine Providence is guiding our lives at every moment, our experience of being in the world is often a feeling of being at sea instead of being at home.

Yet this experience is not new. Rebbe Nachman passed away nearly 200 years ago, yet he wrote often about the difficulty of maintaining one's faith - and the consequences of not having this faith.

According to Rebbe Nachman, the main reason for exile - both spiritual exile and physical exile from the Land of Israel - is lack of faith: a lack of faith in Divine Providence, a lack of faith in one's prayers, a lack of faith in the holiness and significance of the Holy Land (Likutey Moharan I, 7:1 and I, 9:6).

The remedy for exile, therefore, is to restore this faith. Since the month of Cheshvan does not have any holidays or special mitzvot, it can be an excellent time to get back to basics and work on strengthening our relationship with God. And while the shofar and the sukkah of Tishrei inspired us to reach up to God, Cheshvan's "quiet time" offers an opportunity to dig deeper - an example that was given to us by Abraham's son, the Patriarch Isaac.

Uncovering the Spark of Holiness

On the third Shabbat of Cheshvan we read the Torah portion of Vayeira, which introduces us to Isaac. Whereas Abraham's life was dedicated to bringing holiness down into this world by spreading awareness of God's goodness and bounty, Isaac was concerned with revealing holiness that already exists in this world - as shown by his preoccupation with digging wells.

The Lubavitcher Rebbe points out that when someone digs a well, he is not creating a new source of water. Rather, he is removing all the rocks and soil that previously concealed the already existing water from the human eye. On a spiritual level, Isaac is teaching us that we all have deep inside us a "pintele Yid" - a Jewish spark - that is a vibrant source of living waters. By digging deep and revealing this spark, we let our natural desire for goodness, faith and love of God to flow freely in our daily life.

Isaac had to dig many wells before he was successful. We read a few weeks later in Toldot that his enemies stopped up the wells he had dug again and again. Yet Isaac did not give up. He eventually dug a well that his enemies could not touch, and he named the place Rechovot - which means a place of spaciousness.

Digging our own wells - revealing this broad expanse of spirituality that we each have inside - is an ongoing task, but there is a date in Cheshvan that can serve as a focal point for this effort.

The Yarzheit of Rachel Imanu

The Matriarch Rachel, wife of Jacob and mother of Josef and Benjamin, passed away on the 11th of Cheshvan .

Rachel is considered to be the spiritual mother of the entire Jewish people and her tomb, located on the outskirts of Bethlehem, is our third holiest site.

After the destruction of the First Temple, the Jews passed by Rachel's tomb on their way into exile. The prophet Jeremiah vividly describes how Rachel pleaded with God when she saw her descendents being forced out of the Land of Israel:

Thus says the Lord:

A voice is heard in Ramah, lamentation and bitter weeping; Rachel is weeping for her children; she refuses to be comforted for her children, because they are not.

Thus says the Lord:

Refrain your voice from weeping and your eyes from tears, because there is a reward for your work, says the Lord, and they shall return from the land of the enemy. And there is hope for your future, says the Lord, and your children shall return to their border (Jeremiah 31:14-16).

According to Chassidut, Rachel weeps for both the physical and spiritual exile of her children. Through her tears and heartfelt prayers - and her persistence - she personifies the ability of the soul to connect with God and arouse His attribute of mercy. Her yarhtzeit, therefore, can be a powerful time to ask God to redeem us from our personal exile and our exile as a People so that we can once again serve Him wholeheartedly in the Land of Israel.

 


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